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October 2007 - Ask Kim Column
Dear Kim:
Is there such a thing as a curse or negative energy to prevent a happy love life? I have been a widow the last several years, and each time I start having a feeling for someone, they withdraw. A few psychics told me I have a curse that is causing me and my entire family not to have loving relationships. I don't want to believe in such nonsense, but after a few similar experiences, I started to wonder.
Ray R., 45,
Houston, Texas
Dear Ray:
Darling, everyone in the entire world who is dating right now thinks that they are cursed! Even going out on a decent date is harder than having a root canal without anesthesia. But, the only way to find your Mr. Wonderful is to keep dating...and dating...and dating. Most of us have had to endure the same hideous process.
I dated (but did not sleep with) every available man in the western hemisphere who was under the age of 85 before my soul mate finally appeared. If they could walk, talk, and hear even half of what I was saying...I dated them! Beyond the typical dating experiences, you can trust that there is NO SUCH THING as a curse. Get dolled up, put that radiant smile back on your face, and go to church. That's where you're going to meet your Mr. Wonderful. He's a widower, about 60, and has the most beautiful dark brown eyes you've ever seen. Even if you have to clench your teeth, get out there and be seen. That's the only way he's going to find you!
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Dear Kim:
I work in a deli department, and I am a cartoonist trying to get published. I have yet to start college because every time I try to register, I talk myself out of it. What is my life purpose?
Kevin W., 23,
Wilmington, NC
Dear Kevin:
I know how you feel. Every time I think of exercising, I talk myself out of it. After reading your email, I have a mental picture of you standing behind that deli counter dying of boredom while you are forced to service rude people who have no idea who you really are. Plus, at the same time, YOU'RE wondering who the hell you really are! It's really, truly difficult trying to figure that out, isn't it?
When you think of school, your angels are the ones talking you out of it because you would absolutely hate it and feel it was a colossal waste of time. Your angels are telling me that your destiny is to become a bestselling author...and you are to illustrate your own books. You have a gift both as an artist...and an author.
Kevin, you will also travel the world, just as you dream. The key out of your current situation is for you to create a work of fantasy (like Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, etc.,) and then add your brilliant artwork. You would also love working as an art director in films. Once your first book is published, you will have the world at your feet. Start writing!
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Dear Kim:
My car was struck by lightening last night. This is the second encounter I have had with lightening in 3 months. Should I be concerned? And there is a man in my life who I feel very connected with, but we can't seem to actually connect. We were in communication recently and it looked like we would finally meet, but then he disappeared again. Can you tell me anything about him?
Susan E., 37,
Austin, Texas
Dear Susan:
I think this is what guardian angels refer to as trying to get your attention by hitting you over the head with an iron skillet! You keep asking your angels to let you know that they are there, and they keep trying to demonstrate their presence! They tell me that they started to assure you of their existence by doing much smaller things, but you didn't get the picture. They have your attention now, by golly!
Your angels have all kinds of important, positive information stockpiled for you, and all you have to do is sit down long enough to listen. Practice your channeling at least twice a week and you will be amazed at how quickly your ability improves.
In regard to the man...honey, move on. If he were interested, you feel like a lamb chop who was tempting a starving dog. If you want to be in a relationship before menopause, become more active in your search. When a man is interested, you won't have to ask about what's going on! You'll know! (By the way, I didn't understand that fact of life at all before my Mr. Wonderful came along. And this month we celebrate our ten-year wedding anniversary...and he's still pursuing me.) Don't waste your precious affection on a man who isn't interested...or emotionally available. Always remember the romance equation: Pursuit = Interest
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Dear Kim:
My niece, Irina was born on February 12, 2007. She had a difficult birth and her twin brother Nikita passed away after 11 days. Irina had had a number of health related issued. I was wondering if there was anything my family can do to help her grow into a strong and healthy girl.
Irina Y., 36,
Houston, Texas
Dear Irina:
My heartfelt condolences to your family over the loss of Nikita. And I'm guessing that little Irina was named for you...what an honor!
Her angels told me a long and incredible story. Little Irina has the destiny of becoming a physician. She will be passionate about researching cancer; and she will be one of the scientists who isolates the major cell that causes all sorts of cancers. Irina will be part of a team that creates a vaccine. Her research will save countless lives. However, because her last lifetime on the earthly plane was in the bloody battle to save Stalingrad, Russia, from the Nazi invasion, (where she met a terrible, painful death) she was naturally very frightened about returning to the earthly plane.
The only way she could muster the courage to come back is if her soul mate, Nikita, would promise to be her loving companion during pregnancy and for the first few days of life. Then, Nikita was to return to heaven where he would act as one of Irina's guardian angels as long as she lives.
Irina has the will to live and she is a fighter. What the family can do is sing Russian lullabies to her, (if you don't know any, LEARN some) while assuring her daily that in this lifetime, she is safe from harm. As she gets a little older, Irina will very likely have night terrors that reflect dreams of what she went through in her last lifetime. She is very fortunate indeed to have such a loving, understanding family. Remember that this little being trusted you with her safety and security, which is the greatest honor that she could have bestowed!
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