Dear Kim:
It has been a very hard several years. My daughter has been diagnosed with health problems including narcolepsy, my son was physically attacked and sustained serious injury and has now lost his job. Besides worrying like crazy about my kids, I have been considering a move and a possible career change. Any words of wisdom on any of this? I feel like I am in a constant holding pattern and never moving forward.
Karen D., 53,
Los Angeles, CA

Dear Karen:
I'm so sorry about the challenges your family is experiencing! I would love to answer all of your questions, but I chose to focus on you. You've completely outgrown your current life. Because we all have to earn forward movement through resolving issues, the universe keeps repeatedly exposing us to the same lessons in order to help us get them completed. Once we've accomplished that task, only then can we move to the next chapter of our lives.

You've worked very hard on a group of difficult issues these last ten years, haven't you? Your soul has evolved and matured immensely through this process, but your mental consciousness has not kept up with this spurt of enlightenment; as if you do not have an awareness of the person you have become through this process of spiritual evolution. Forward movement cannot take place until you accomplish two things: first, put finishing touches on your ability to set boundaries and say "No!" comfortably. Once you've properly finished that issue, than there is only one task left: seeing yourself clearly for who you are, after you've completed the big block of serious issues that you've been addressing for the last ten years.

Because you're in a hurry to make changes in your life, speed the process by assembling a notebook and a pen, and move to a quiet place where you won't be disturbed. Think about the last ten years of your life. Memories will flood into your mind, like marriage, having children, divorce, losing a job, buying a home, being sick, friction erupting with family members, etc. By simply writing these things down, you will be able to reflect upon how differently you would handle the same situation now if it were to occur.

This process, which I call "taking stock," can dramatically speed your sense of self. Until you realize how much you've grown and evolved, you will not be able to set appropriate, far-reaching-enough goals for the future. Take stock right away, and you'll be happily amazed with this reality check! By the way, once you do this work your angels are recommending, you will be crossing the threshold into a new chapter of your life where you'll have the opportunity to move to a new home, start your own business, become financially independent, and meet a soul mate. You're in the last quarter mile of this twenty-six mile spiritual marathon! ooks!

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Dear Kim:
What is going on with my husband's physical intimacy issues? Is there something I can do? Will we ever work this out? Or should I just accept a marriage without sex?
Kathleen L., 52,
Salt Lake City, Utah

Kathleen:
Your angels tell me that you are mourning the loss of your marriage because it is no longer even a semblance of what it used to be. I am also hearing that you are mourning the loss of the man your husband used to be in your eyes; and, as a result, mourning the loss of the young, desirable women you used to be...in your eyes. You're wondering when the situation changed so dramatically and if there is any hope that the relationship can be resuscitated.

Your angels are telling me that you will try therapy, but your husband will not choose to work through his issues. You are no longer being "heard" by this man, and there are many things that you cannot share with him. The underlying foundation of the relationship-the friendship-has deteriorated and is now splintering. Your husband came into your life to be a student of yours-not a Mr. Wonderful. Because he has chosen not to learn any more from you (and you know that because he no longer "hears" you) the marriage is floundering.

Throughout this period of decision-making, be prepared to feel anger, sadness, a great sense of loss when you ponder what could have been, depression, hurt, and loneliness. Those are the exact emotions that will slowly nudge you toward making a decision that you never dreamed possible. Ultimately, it is very likely that you're going to seek a divorce. When you get to that point, there will be no changing your mind, and you will proceed with courage and conviction. Your angels also tell me that you have another relationship to look forward to with a Mr. Wonderful with whom you'll be truly happy. Have faith that you have the enlightenment to make the right choice.

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Dear Kim:
I had an unexpected health problem pop up and had to have emergency surgery from which I am nicely recovering but now my world is out of focus ever so slightly. Everything is the same (marriage, children, job), except I am just a bit fuzzy and am "waiting" for a big change. Two days after my surgery I had a dream about a beautiful wooden door. I was mesmerized by its beauty and I was jolted by a voice that told me no matter what happens to me there has always been a door there and always will be, even if I choose not to enthusiastically jump through. Then I was filled with extreme euphoria and the voice said whether I jump through this one or not there was a HUGE change coming my way very soon so get ready. Can you please shed some light on this situation?
Amy F., 46,
Houston, TX

Dear Amy:
That voice was coming from one of your angels. You now find yourself on another level of enlightenment; which can feel a little discombobulating, because although you can look around and see that nothing yet has changed, you can feel a big shift on the horizon. Congratulations!

The door in your dream represents your life's work. You are destined to have your own business as a healer and teacher. Interestingly, most souls return to the earthly plane to carry out one or both of those responsibilities to the greatest extend to which they are capable. Think about writing nonfiction books about promoting and fostering the spirituality and enlightenment of children. You would love working at home, following this creative and spiritual pursuit, earning an impressive income, and feeling that you were making a big difference in the world as a teacher. Imagine, if children were better understood and spiritually nurtured, what a profound difference it could make in their lives...as well as promoting their ability to contribute to the welfare of the earthly plane when they came of age to assume their own destinies.

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Dear Kim:
I've been reading your book "How to Talk With Your Angels" but the thought of hearing a voice when I know there's not a person there scares me a lot. Do you have any suggestions on how to overcome that? I would love to ask my angels if I will ever get pregnant. I've been married for ten years and my husband and I have been trying for a long time and haven't been able to conceive. I would really appreciate your help and suggestions.
Marina A., 34,
Denver, CO

Dear Marina:
I know that, at first, hearing voices can be quite disconcerting! But if you can keep in mind that those are the voices of your angels, it can allay your fears. Ask them for positive, useful information that can begin to make a difference in your life. Ask for insight and direction, and follow what they suggest. Very quickly, your life will begin to change for the better. Allow your angels to prove their good intentions and how devoted they are to you.

In regard to conceiving: I'm hearing that your babies haven't been ready to come...until now! Were you aware that you can communicate with your unborn children the same way in which you can speak with your angels? Your soon-to-be-born babies are hovering around you and ready to communicate. Talk to them, and listen for a telepathic reply. You'll learn to trust in your ability, don't worry! Keep practicing, and you'll see your ability expanding.

However, there is something that you and your darling hubby need to do to conceive now that the little ones are ready to come. You know how we gals can get a little moist under our breasts? Men frequently perspire under their testicles. Heat lowers sperm count and can make sperm sluggish swimmers. This common problem is easily rectified. Buy a small fan. Have Mr. Wonderful disrobe, and sit in front of the fan so it blows on his testicles for about twenty minutes. Then, make love right away, in any position. I'd be very surprised if you weren't pregnant within three months. I'm hearing that you will have three children. Although the first pregnancy will be a single birth, your second pregnancy may result in twins. Please write and share the good news!

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Dear Kim:
My daughter Sophie, 15, has been suffering with headaches and tiredness for 5 months. Medical tests show clear. What could be the cause for this - and the solution? Much gratitude.
Carol L., 45,
Cheltenham, UK

Dear Carol:
With the understanding that I am not a physician, or licensed healthcare provider, I will be more than happy to provide some insight into why your beautiful daughter has been experiencing these frustrating symptoms. What I am hearing from her angels is that the cause is hormonal, and the symptoms would be described best as PMS.

After checking with her doctor, you might want to try an over the counter medication like Midol, which she should begin taking a few days before the onset of her period and continue until her period is over. She also needs to embark on a regular program of exercise, which-along with the Midol-would also dramatically help her discomfort. Why not start a mother/daughter Pilates workout three or four days a week at home with a good DVD, like Mari Winsor's program that you can buy over the Internet? Your angels tell me that you need more quality time together, doing something you both could enjoy, and that would have healthful benefits as well. After a few months of Midol and Pilates, Sophie will feel like a new woman!

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