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November 2004 - Ask Kim Column
Dear Kim:
I am a single mother of three boys and have returned to college online to complete a bachelors degree in Criminal Justice. I feel I am on the right path, but I do not yet know what I will be doing with this degree when I am finished. Should I then move forward to complete a Masters Degree? What type of work do you see me doing? Also, I have moved back to my home state of Pennsylvania. How long will I be here and where will I go next?
Mary Anne H., 39
Erie PA
Mary Anne:
It's absolutely fabulous that you're in school. You're moving your life forward and making a true investment in your future. And you have three sons! Isn't testosterone wonderful? Well, apparently, you have some nice testosterone flowing through your veins as well (as many of we gals are proud to claim) because your destiny is one of leadership and fighting for the rights of others.
I just finished channeling for you, and I asked your guides about a career in the FBI---maybe working as a profiler. Instead, however, your angels kept referring to you as Madame District Attorney. Law school is in your future, and then a high-profile career as an attorney. After you practice for several years, you'll have an opportunity to work as a correspondent for Court TV. (Don't laugh---Harrison Ford, the actor, used to be a carpenter; and Golda Meir, a former Prime Minister of Israel, was a housewife in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, before she was called to serve.)
You'll remain in Pennsylvania during the time you're going to school and then for the next several years when you first get into your law practice. Then, the TV gig will come along in New York. So...you'll end up in the Big Apple! The City That Never Sleeps! You'll have plenty of disposable income, and what's more---you're going to continue to provide a terrific example for your sons by making a positive impact on the lives of other people. All of your most difficult issues are behind you---now it's time to pursue your destiny with both barrels blazing!
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Dear Kim:
I'm ready for the move to California that I know I must make. The trouble is that one issue after another keeps coming up that straps me financially. Does this mean I'm to remain in the Houston area or I'm being resistant for some reason? Help!
Cathy C., 53
Kingwood, Texas
Dear Cathy:
I can hear your guides singing "California here I come..." which is a very good sign. But you do have a dilemma. You ARE being resistant, but perhaps not in the way you're thinking.
Basically, there are two main issues that you need to work on and once you have those resolved and/or mastered, your life will move forward like greased lightening. The first issue is patience. The second is blooming where you are. But how the %$#@ can I "bloom" when things are not what I want and need them to be, you ask? That's the whole point!
The financial problems are popping up to give you practice being patient, and with blooming. We receive the wonderful opportunity to "bloom where we are" when things are NOT going as we'd like them to! And it's up to us to choose to be joyful, positive, optimistic, and maintain our faith especially when things become difficult. Or, instead, we can choose to be depressed, impatient, miserable, cranky, and negative---but then we completely ruin our current quality of life. Unfortunately, a lot of folks are choosing the latter, and that's why the pharmaceutical companies are making a fortune with antidepressants.
If we choose to be positive, then we begin to live in the moment, and enjoy each moment. I know...I know...this is much simpler in theory than in practice! And by the way, readers---blooming were we are is a very common issue that many of us are experiencing. How are you doing with your "blooming?" Write and let me know!
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Dear Kim:
I haven't been in a quality relationship and have not been seeing anyone for the past 2 years. I've done a lot of spiritual work and am wondering, will I ever remarry - with Mr. Right? I have to be honest, it is getting tiresome doing and going places by myself.
Deb H., 50
League City, Texas
Dear Deb:
Sister, you just said a mouthful! Of course it is very tiresome to go places and do things alone! If we're lucky enough to have family members and friends, they're not always available. And even if it's only grocery shopping, we long to share our time and activities with a main squeeze. Feeling lonely is not an indication of neediness or dependence, although some therapists tell us that we should feel whole and complete whether we're in a relationship or not. To that, I say "baloney!" How the dickens can we feel "whole" when there is still a big, open part of our destiny left unfulfilled?
Your guides have just shared with me that you haven't dated anyone in the last two years because you'd prefer to wait for Mr. Right, rather than settle for Mr. Right Now. You're a smart cookie, kiddo! Let's cut to the chase, shall we? Mr. Right is coming (finally!) around the middle of next year. He will recognize you as a soul mate, and he will be emotionally available for a committed, long-term, heart, mind, body, and soul relationship. You will be married and share a very happy life together. I love a story with a happy ending!
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Kim O'Neill
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Spring, Texas 77388
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