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November 2006 - Ask Kim Column
Dear Kim:
Is my fiance Amador the father of the baby I am carrying?
Amanda R., 21
Magee, Mississippi
Dear Amanda:
He is the father...and the baby will look like him, too. I wish you and Amador peace and happiness in your life together. And, you might want to be extra careful right after the baby's birth because you could get pregnant right away again. No fertility problems in this lifetime for you, sweetie!
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Dear Kim:
My husband and I tried for many years to have children, going through IVF, etc. After the last procedure 2 years ago, we made the decision that we would continue as a childless couple. I felt very comfortable with that decision, but lately I have been getting feelings like I should try again. Do you feel any validity in this?
Melissa R., 43
Houston, Texas
Dear Melissa:
I know it is heartbreaking to want a baby and remain childless--especially when you have done so much to try and make it happen. You're getting these "feelings" because the universe is trying to tell you that it is still possible and that your life will be more enriched if you become a mother. This is not true for everyone, of course, but it is true for you!
I see you with three children. (You will give birth to one child, and adopt the others.) Get going with the first adoption RIGHT NOW. In the meantime, start working to get pregnant by doing one of the few things that you haven't tried yet---helping your hubby increase his sperm count. This has worked for a number of my clients over the years, and you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
All you need to buy is a small portable plastic fan. When you two decide to get cozy, which needs to be on a daily basis, have Mr. Wonderful undress and sit in a comfortable chair. Position the fan so that it blows cool air on his testicles. After about twenty minutes, he's all ready! The cool air has helped increase his sperm count. Make love immediately. Repeat DAILY.
And remember: If you don't invest the necessary time and energy in this, it isn't going to work. Good luck! By the way, my doctor told me that without fertility treatments I didn't have a chance in hell to get pregnant. I had my first child at 44, and my second at 45--without fertility. It's a blast being a mature mom. Some of us have the destiny to get pregnant earlier (like beautiful Amanda in the above question) and some of us--like you and me---are later bloomers. But all that matter is that we bloom...!
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Dear Kim:
Why do I experience anxiety when speaking in public? I cannot speak without getting panic attacks.
Luisa R., 57
Houston, Texas
Dear Luisa:
Honey--why should you be any different than the rest of us? Welcome to the human race! Speaking in public is ghastly for most folks. Your angels strongly recommend that you battle this fear---and you will triumph! It is part of your destiny in this lifetime to speak in front of people, so you MUST do it. Hypnosis will help you erase this fear, I promise. John Wayne once said, "Courage is being scared to death...and saddling up anyway." Hypnosis is what will help you saddle up!
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Dear Kim:
I have a son, Ryan, 19, that seems to keep getting pulled back with the same girlfriend, Cayla, 18. Please tell me that she is not going to be my daughter-in-law, or the mother of my grandchildren.
Lisa S., 44
Katy, Texas
Dear Lisa:
Cayla has come into your son's life to be a wonderful teacher for him. While they will discuss marriage, I see them breaking up before they get to the alter. Your angels recommend that you soften your stance about this young lady in regard to having her in your home. You're pushing your son away and he needs you more than ever. This girl is your son's main squeeze right now. Weren't you the one who encouraged him to think for himself? Didn't you support his learning to make decisions on his own? You never told him, "son, you need to think for yourself--but only if I agree with your choices!"
With all due respect, mom, you're giving him mixed messages. And why in God's name are you allowing this young lady to have such an impact on your life? She means absolutely nothing to you--for good reason! Swallow your pride and apologize to Ryan, and let him know that the girl he dates is his choice...and not yours. Lavish him with love, affection, and support. He sure isn't getting that from her! You must keep the lines of communication open with your baby. Don't let any gal--especially one that is not of his caliber--impact the wonderful relationship you've built over the years with your precious son.
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Kim O'Neill
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Spring, Texas 77388
kim@kimoneillpsychic.com
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