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November 2008 - Ask Kim Column
Dear Kim:
I have just started to become acquainted with your column & writings, and all of the wonderful things you do & bring to peoples' lives through The Indigo Sun. I am pursuing the avenue of sales which I always felt I would be good at. I am organizing the marketing/sales for a start-up company that I have a tremendous amount of faith in; but everything seems to be at a standstill as of late. I'm not sure what direction to take within the business or maybe even in my life career path in general? I am very passionate, but have never been very sure where to channel my complete focus. Also, do you see me getting married to my significant other anytime soon?
Natalie D., 25
Houston, Texas
Dear Natalie:
You are exactly where you're supposed to be right now. The reason that your angels directed you to your current job was to help you gain some vital expertise that you will put to good use in your own business. The current job is meant to be a temporary position for you. Once you learn what you need to, then your angels will prompt you to move to another company in a different position to continue your learning curve. The faster you react to what your angels are recommending at any given time, the faster you will move forward and launch your own business. You'd never be happy working long term as a nine-to-five girl, toiling for someone else and living hand-to-mouth financially.
In a nutshell: you're going to have an international public relations business, travel all over the world (for business and pleasure), have a Mr. Wonderful, and three children. You need balance in your life, and it's your destiny to build an exciting career and, enjoy a stable, happy home life. Hold off on marrying for another three years. This is the time to concentrate on learning from others as fast as you can so you build your own business. The business will come first, and then the marriage and children. Continued success to you!
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Dear Kim:
I have been dating a man named Howard. He is 48 years old, lives in Arlington, TX, and is a criminal attorney. We had a sudden change in our relationship and we are no longer seeing each other. I recently found out that he is in the process of going through a 2nd divorce. I thought he was already divorced 4 years ago. He lied to me. Why couldn't he be honest with me from the very beginning? Is he really a bad character or did he just make a bad decision in not telling me? I am having a tough time getting over him.
Remsey N., 41,
Houston, Texas
Dear Remsey:
He certainly did make a "bad decision" - he deliberately lied to you, knowing that you had feelings for him that were deep, genuine, and sincere. He is selfish, insecure, commitment-phobic, and is in the habit of telling women what he senses they want to hear to get whatever he wants. He is not my nomination for Mr. Congeniality!
This is a classic example of what happens when you have reached the level of enlightenment to have earned a heart, mind, body, and soul relationship...but for whatever reason, your romantic soul mate isn't yet available. Your angels are going to utilize your gorgeous wisdom by trotting out all of the dysfunctional guys in the western hemisphere to be spiritual students for you. So, knowing this, when you meet a new man, the first question to ask your angels should be, "Is he a Mr. Wonderful, or a student for me?" Is it a good idea to date spiritual students? Of course...a girl has to occupy herself while she's waiting for Mr. Wonderful. But, if you can't have casual sex without becoming brain dead, just don't sleep with spiritual students. Keep your head up, stay your course, and maintain the faith that Mr. Wonderful is coming.
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Dear Kim:
I would like to ask my Angels what gifts, creative talents, abilities and work experience I have brought to earth in this current incarnation? What did I do back home in the spirit world and in past lives that I can apply in regards to a career now? Am I able to paint? Create jewelry? Healing modalities? As you can read I am grasping at straws! I have been told before on separate occasions that I came into this life with no specific blueprint when it came to career choices. I have felt frustrated with this area of my life for a long time because I don't seem to have any passions/interest that lasts or sticks. I just think it's time to figure me out.
Angela G, 31
Toronto, Canada
Dear Angela:
What great questions! The reason you are so confused about all of your options is because you are multi-talented and have a wide variety of interests. And, rest assured, you have a specific blueprint. We all do. In each of our earthly lifetimes, we plan a specific life's purpose as well as the issues we need to resolve. Accomplishing those two dynamics will allow us to develop greater wisdom, enlightenment, and maturity...and at the same time, make a difference it other peoples' lives. You should know something else: there is no one thing that will keep you stimulated long term...and that's perfectly okay!
Authors write different books. Physicians become holistic healers. We're all in the process of evolving. Angela, you are a person who likes to juggle a number of balls in the air at one time and who does not sit back and contemplate her naval. You get bored easily, correct? So stop searching for something that will satisfy you throughout this lifetime. Decide what is most exciting to you now. In time, after you've fully explored that endeavor, then you'll move on to explore another path! To answer your question: your blueprint involves holistic healing, writing, speaking, starting a store that sells spiritual items (by website and brick-and-mortar store), and co-founding a retreat that will promote healing. You're here to accomplish many things, all in the spiritual sciences arena, to help other people heal and evolve. In doing so, you're going to make an astounding, positive difference on the earthly plane. You're here to act as a guardian angel in human form.
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Dear Kim:
I have been seeing a man for 20 months. He is divorced from his first wife and currently separated from his common-law wife, living on his own for the past 3 years. He has sought help to determine why he cannot end this common-law marriage even though he says he has no desire to go back. She is bipolar and he has indicated feelings of guilt. We have broken up and gotten back together over this situation several times. He makes a little progress but then something always seems to interfere with his progress, the latest being hurricane Ike. I have always felt we have a strong bond and we can never walk away from each other. Do you see any future for us? Or by his actions should I realize he is never going to place me as number one?
Debbie A., 50,
Houston, TX
Dear Debbie:
I've been a professional channel for over twenty-one years, and I must admit that this is a first! A guy using a natural disaster like a hurricane as an excuse not to move forward in a relationship! Did he believe that when you lost your electricity in the storm, that you also lost power to your brain as well? Is he hoping that it hasn't yet been restored? Your boyfriend clings to the common-law relationship because he doesn't want to make another commitment. If he had feelings of guilt, he wouldn't have left the bipolar girlfriend in the first place. And, the guilt would have prevented him from sleeping with you. These feelings of guilt are very selective; they arise when you bring up the subject of commitment. He will never place anyone else's feelings or needs before his own; so, no, you will never become a priority to him.
For your part, I sense that the reason you haven't yet kicked his fuzzy posterior to the curb is because there is no one else on the romantic horizon and you are afraid that you might not ever meet anyone in the future. Not true, beautiful Debbie! You already know in your heart that you are entitled to more than you have been receiving, and that this relationship has been the cause of ongoing confusion, hurt, anger, loneliness, and disappointment. You can keep getting hurt, or you can choose to muster all of the courage that you possess and sever the dysfunctional relationship for good. You'll be alone for a little while...but so what? Do you realize that you're giving the universe mixed messages by staying with this man? You're saying, through your actions, "This relationship suits me, or I would end it." So, your guardian angels hold back from uniting you with a true soul mate. Break off the romance and make a lengthy list of all of the things you dream about in a man. Mr. Wonderful is right around the corner.
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Dear Kim:
I have been working with a psychic for the past year or so. I never thought that I would be put in this situation. I am contacting you because I know I have found my soul mate however with a soul mate comes many obstacles. I have spent a good sum of money to this psychic and I am not sure if it is a scam or not. She did tell me the exact date I would meet him but the only way I could be with him forever was to follow her rules. These include not drinking alcohol, only calling him every couple of days, and many more. I am not even supposed to contact you. I just want to make sure I am not being scammed and he is the one. I found out about you from a friend of mine so I think you can be trusted.
Stephanie J., 22,
Beaumont, TX
Dear Stephanie:
I am SO glad that you wrote to me! First of all, why are you continuing to visit this psychic? As an experienced channel, I will tell you that it should require no more than one session to provide the information you wanted about your personal life. Second, it is completely unethical for a psychic give you her "rules." A good channeled session should add to your independence and empowerment...not diminish it! You do not need a psychic to help your relationship along! It is strictly between you and the guy in question.
Stop visiting with her and listening to her cockamamie baloney-and, you might consider setting boundaries by telling her that if she contacts you for any reason you'll consider it harassment and go to the authorities. Whatever money you've spent with her is an investment in your education. If you're scared about what she might do, just tell her I'm a new friend of yours...and have her call me. (My office number is: 281-651-1599.) I would also recommend that you learn to channel for yourself, as I suggest to all of my clients. If you do not have my book, How to Talk With Your Angels, email your address and I'll send one as my little gift to you. About the guy in question: there shouldn't be a lot of obstacles in a soul mate relationship. Email his name and age and I'll provide information about him in next month's column.
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Would you like Kim to answer a question for you in her column? Please write or email your question, including your name and age. If you'd like information about a private session, you can contact Kim at 281-651-1599, or through our Contact Form.
Kim O'Neill
4008 Louetta Rd
#362
Spring, Texas 77388
kim@kimoneillpsychic.com
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