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December 2006 - Ask Kim Column
Dear Kim:
I am 33 years old and for my whole life I have had night terrors. My brother used to race into my room at night because he thought someone was in the house. I remember my mother putting me in bed with her at night because I was so terrified. She would ask me what was wrong and I would point to the man in the corner and say, “Can’t you see him?” I sometimes also wake up because I hear many voices whispering my name.
June C., 33
Las Cruces, NM
Dear June:
You and your brother are naturally-gifted intuitives who can see/hear/sense your guardian angels; other people’s angels; your deceased friends and family members who choose to pay a social call; and, harmless spirits (who used to be human beings) who are drawn to certain places on the earthly plane. I refer to them as our “spiritual borders." Those are a lot of spirits!
None of the spirits have been trying to scare you; it’s just a little startling when you can see them so tangibly. Children experience night terrors (including my own babies) from dreaming about a past-life trauma, or, seeing spirits they don’t recognize. For example, most children might not be frightened by their dead Uncle Hubert or Aunt Matilda coming by for a visit, but when they see a spirit they don’t recognize---that’s scary! And children don’t often have a grownup who can explain spiritual stuff to them.
By the way, the voices whispering your name are your guardian angels who are trying to build a closer relationship with you. Practice communicating with them and you’ll quickly let go of the fear...and your night terrors.
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Dear Kim:
I am in a quandary. I am supposed to meet Mr. Wonderful anytime now, but have been pulling away and telling my guides to wait. I have been trying to take classes to get into a better career. I don’t feel I should meet someone when I feel so needy. I am working but not making enough to pay all the bills right now, and feel awful about myself. Should I continue to take classes, and what am I doing wrong? Am I going to get a better job to make ends meet? Should I continue to put off my Mr. Wonderful?
Carol M., 45
Desperate and crazy in Houston, Texas
Dear Carol:
Sweetie, you’re not desperate and you’re not crazy! If you were desperate, you’d have latched on to some dumb schlemiel with an impressive bank account who could have financially come to your rescue. If you were crazy, you wouldn’t be thinking so clearly, or with so much maturity or enlightenment. YOU HAVE ASKED YOUR GUIDES TO HOLD OFF ON MR. WONDERFUL!
That takes enormous strength and courage! Your angels applaud you! In your current predicament, the men whom you'd attract would be needy, insecure, or controlling---and this you don’t want. You already know that you need to find a better job to improve your current quality of life---so---do it.
You’re working on your independence and empowerment. Bravo, Ms. Carol! In addition, you’ve recognized that a Mr. Wonderful of the caliber you’re looking for would appreciate a gal who was completely self reliant...just like him. Once you find the new job and are earning more, your angels recommend that you take dance classes because you’d have so much fun. (They tell me that you haven’t had much fun lately.) For the record, they know that these aren’t the type of classes you were referring to. It’s time to quit the other classes, which you already have been sensing. Better job=bills paid off=better self-esteem=attracting Mr. Wonderful=happy future. You are beautifully on track!
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Dear Kim:
I have been having so many health problems. Some of the procedures the OB/GYN is talking about doing to resolve some issues would require permanent birth control. I am afraid that I would miss out on having one more child. Am I going to have another or are we finished?
Marilee N.
Davidsonville, MD
Dear Marilee::
You’re finished with pregnancy, but I see one more child joining the family through an adoption. Your ongoing intuitive feelings about one more child have been correct. Aren’t Winston or Joseph beautiful names?
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Dear Kim:
I’ve been dating the same guy for over seven years, and I want to know if he’s Mr. Right-for-Me. He’s a sweet guy, but he’s also the only guy I’ve ever dated. Every so often I bring up the topic of marriage, but he always brushes it off. Because of this lack of commitment I’ve developed a crush on a co-worker. I feel that my co-worker and I are very compatible, but he’s constantly showering this other girl with lots of attention. I’m at the end of my rope. Please help me.
Terri O., 24
Honolulu, HI
Dear Terri::
If you were my daughter, I’d take you out for a long lunch that would include a sinful chocolate dessert, and while we were bonding, I’d delicately suggest that you work on your commitment issues. Yes, you heard right. YOU have commitment issues.
Bachelor #1 has successfully monopolized your time for seven years, and you’ve allowed him to do so. Bachelor #2 is obviously focused on another women and he’s the one you’re interested in now. Both men are emotionally unavailable to you...so you have to ask yourself why you find these men so attractive and appealing.
I BEG YOU to go for some therapy (run---don’t walk) because Mr. Wonderful is out there impatiently waiting. Ask the therapist to help you resolve issues connected to self-worth, confidence, and entitlement. It’s worth every penny...think of it as an investment in your future. (Or, the kind of holiday gift that keeps on giving!) Turn your focus to this spiritual homework and you’ll earn the man of your dreams. Meanwhile, it’s important to spend time alone right now while you’re doing this work on self. Neither of the men you’re interested in is of the caliber of man that would make you happy.
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