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January 2008 - Ask Kim Column
Dear Kim:
Can you help me identify my angels? Their names? My life's purpose? It has been truly a nightmare of a rollercoaster ride for 30 years…and now so peaceful and happy in my current life. Almost surreal to be with someone that loves me so deeply.
Eileen M., 53,
Waupaca, WI
Dear Eileen:
You have 23 guardian angels working with you - what a wonderful way to start off the New Year! The angels who provide the lion's share of information are: Rosemary, Charles, Benita, and Bill. The best time of day for you to connect with them is early morning. They are telling me that the reason your life has been so stressful is because you planned to resolve a great number of issues before moving into your life's work. You are not spiritually behind schedule, but right on track...nd on time! Your angels tell me that you have many interests and talents, but there is only one endeavor that will make your heart and soul sing for the rest of your life.
Plus, this endeavor will allow you to make a difference in other peoples' lives...just like you want! You are to write non-fiction books about what you experienced in your past lifetimes. To access this information, your angels recommend that you visit someone who conducts hypnosis so that you can retrace your steps. Your books will be published, and will inspire others by allowing them a glimpse into how you have dealt with loss; reacted to trauma; and healed disappointments when other people in your life did not rise to the occasion.
As you gain insight into where you've been and what you've accomplished in the past, you will better understand the source of the strength and courage you have been able to muster in this lifetime. Each of these hypnosis sessions can yield enough background and information for a whole book. The gal who can conduct these past life regressions is in Arizona (Sedona) where you spend the winter. And, last but not least, your current husband is the darling Mr. Wonderful you prayed would finally come into your life. You two are living proof that there really ARE soul mates out there!
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Dear Kim:
I'm feeling like there's more to life than I have. My husband is abusing alcohol and hooking up with the wrong kind of people (drinkers) and can't seem to get himself straightened out. He has been in detox, the psych ward and tried out-patient programs over the years. He was once diagnosed with depression but the doctors say there is no help unless he quits the alcohol. I blame his drinking for everything that's wrong with our lives...financially, emotionally, physically. I truly love him and think he's a great guy and so does everyone who knows him, so why can't he quit? Should I stay or should I go and make my own life - what's left of it?
Debra F., 50,
Owantonna, MN
Dear Debra:
Sweetie, the one who needs therapy is you. Your hubby has already made his decision about sobriety, and he continues to make his choice crystal clear. Why will you not accept that he wants to drink? So, if you want a different kind of life, you have to move on and get a divorce. Sometimes we love someone we just can't live with. If you stay, he will destroy you. You're pounding on a wall believing that you can make it into a door. Seek some counseling so that you don't gravitate toward another man like the one you've got, and you'll open the door for a lovely future. Only you can make this happen. Please don't waste your life!
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Dear Kim:
I am going through a really hard time and I don't know what to do. I have been with my fiancé for three years and planning to get married at the end of this month, but I feel he has doubts about us and it concerns me a lot. When I talk about wedding plans or things I need to do he changes the subject. He shows no interest in what is going on. We have a blended family and have been living together for two years. We do have a lot of issues that need a lot of work and honestly I don't know how to fix them. I have a child and my fiancé feels my family shows favoritism towards him more than his girls. We get along most of the time, but when we fight, it's really bad. We say hurtful things to each other and I just wonder if it is ever going to get better? Is he really in love with me? Is he someone I can trust to stand by me through thick and thin?
Jennifer F., 33,
Huffman, TX
Dear Jennifer:
He's not standing by you now! Don't do it! Listen to that inner voice that's screaming at you to stop the wedding! This man does fit your Mr. Wonderful profile, does he? A good relationship will remain balanced and centered, happy and supportive. Your current relationship creates a lot of stress and turmoil in your life. If you marry him, the stress and friction will only increase, making your life more difficult and complicated than you can imagine. Is that what you want for your son? Think of all the arguing he's already endured.
The only way you are going to end up with a soul mate is to break off the entire relationship with your fiancé, and spend a little time alone. Get to know who you are now, after everything you've been through. When the dust (melodrama) has settled, then start dating again. Your Mr. Wonderful is out there waiting for you. You're wasting precious time in a relationship that has already run its course!
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Dear Kim:
I finally found the courage to leave my employer last June and prepare for a move to Los Angeles. However, my home hasn't sold and I have not been successful in finding a job. I really want to move and hope to find Mr. Wonderful there as well! What's keeping me here?
Cathy C., 57,
Kingwood, TX
Dear Cathy:
Good for you! Aren't you proud of yourself? Your angels recommend that you lower the price of your home $5,000, hold an open house every Sunday, advertise the home on HAR.com and in the Houston Chronicle, and then it will sell. Did you notice that after you quit your job and put your home on the market, the forward momentum began to slow to a crawl? Beyond selling your home, your angels tell me that you really don't have an established plan of action, like where you want to live, or the kind of work you will be doing when you get out there. Visualize everything that you'd like to create. Develop a list of goals that you want to achieve in California, including meeting Mr. Right. (He is out there…you are correct!) Make your list (and, of course, it will be tentative because things are always subject to change as transition proceeds) and then you'll start the ball rolling again. Good luck!
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Dear Kim:
I had a session with you and you told me that I was going to meet a guy on eHarmony and I did, four days later! His name is D. S., is this guy the one who is supposed to be my Mr. Wonderful? We were communicating via email and then he just stopped...I am confused. He matched the description you gave, so I was thinking it was him.
Cathie R., 40,
Houston, TX
Dear Cathie:
D.S. stopped emailing because he suddenly became interested in someone else. He is not your Mr. Wonderful. Hang in there and you will meet your soul mate. Stick with eHarmony! It's going to be any day now. Let me know when it happens.
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Kim O'Neill
4008 Louetta Rd
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Spring, Texas 77388
kim@kimoneillpsychic.com
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