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February 2008 - Ask Kim Column
Dear Kim:
I have a 23 year old daughter that is moving to Austin to start work at a new hospital. She has never been away from her stepdad and me for any given length of time. She has expressed to me that she is both excited and scared, moving to a new apartment, being on her own, a new city, etc. I know she is also concerned about finding a man to enjoy her life and get married one day. She says it is so depressing that all her friends have someone but not her. What do you see for her on her new career, city, and her love life?
Marlena D.,
Katy, Texas
Dear Marlena:
Your daughter is surrounded by devoted guardian angels who have been directing her to make this move for some time now. She had outgrown her life in the Houston area and was ready for the next spiritual adventure. Only by leaving everything behind that was familiar could she achieve her personal and professional goals. She has demonstrated great courage and strength, and those efforts will be rewarded. The work at the hospital is going to be challenging, but exciting...just what she hoped it would be.
She will love her new apartment, but she won't be there very long. Within her first year in Austin, she will meet a Mr. Wonderful - very likely at the hospital where she works. The move is the catalyst for all of these opportunities. I'd start shopping for a dress to wear to a casual, outdoor wedding. Lake Travis is a beautiful setting, don't you agree?
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Dear Kim:
I left Michigan for Georgia because I heard there are better jobs. But I am having major trouble even getting a fast food job! I feel like a jinx. My daughter (16) is giving up on any dreams, saying people "like us" don't get help and she will resign herself to a minimum wage job. I don't want to be on welfare and work "poop" jobs the rest of my life! Where can I go to find a good job? I have been reading your book "How to Talk With Your Angels" and I have been praying - begging for help for months.
Tracy J., 39,
Fort Valley, Georgia
Dear Tracy:
Help is on the way! First of all, you have some issues that are apparent to the interviewer when you apply for a job. That's the problem. You have some healing to do with your Dad, and some healing to conduct with your daughter's father. (Just within yourself; you do not have to have contact with either one of them.) You need to forgive them, and let go of your anger and disappointment. When you interview, you seem scared (and you are - about not getting the job!) and it is obvious that you do not have good self-esteem. If you can muster the strength to pretend to be confident when you interview-you'll get the job!
Plus, you piss and moan a lot about how hard life is, and this is having a major impact on your daughter. As the parent, it's up to you to lead by example. (Not easy, I know.) Get a job waiting tables. Then you'll be able to move up to something better from there. Plus, at the restaurant, you could make girlfriends who could emotionally support you. You have no support system right now; it's no wonder you're depressed! That's why you feel so alone - like you have the weight of the world on your small shoulders.
Tracy, it is your destiny to have your own business and you will do very well financially. You would love real estate. Once you get your first job in Georgia, start saving your pennies and soon you'll have enough to pay for real estate school. Get your license. Your angels tell me that you will have a successful real estate business in Atlanta…and that's why you were directed by them to move to Georgia. So now you know that you are hearing your angels correctly! Good work! And, if you continue to have a hard time with your healing, seek out a free clinic that offers emotional health care. You can do this! You must - for your sake...and your daughter's!
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Dear Kim:
There is a gentleman I met recently. He seems to be getting strongly attracted to me really fast. Is there a possibility he is becoming obsessive and should I be concerned about my safety?
Irina Y., 36,
Houston, Texas
Dear Irina:
He's a perfectly harmless, decent guy. Your angels brought him into your life as a Mr. Right Now; after all, a girl has to do something while she's waiting for Mr. Wonderful. However, the man in question is all over you like a cheap suit and he isn't heeding any of your subtle little hints to back off. Politely ask Bachelor #1 to hit the bricks, and ask your angels to kindly deliver Mr. Right Now Bachelor #2 to keep you romantically occupied until your soul mate is ready to enter the picture.
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Dear Kim:
I have had two readings with you in the past and you have absolutely and very accurately answered all my questions AND furthermore given me insight into many other aspects of my life. Is there something that I am doing to unknowingly deter my meeting with my soulmate? You are the best psychic there is so I could not go to just anyone else.
Prarthana S., 37,
Houston, Texas
Dear Prarthana:
You are a very discerning individual. (I chuckled as I read your message-thank you!) Darling, Mr. Wonderful is coming. Your angels swear that you are not doing anything to derail the process of meeting him, nor is there anything more you can do on your end to speed up the process. However, you are diminishing your quality of life by fretting over the timing. Like a mantra, keep telling yourself: he's coming when the moment is perfect for both of us. The enlightened woman works on her issues, treats others with respect and dignity, has faith in herself and her angels, and is at peace with the perfect timing of the universe.
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Dear Kim:
Here's my conflict: I am an action-oriented person, so I am on a quest to manifest my life partner. I have met someone, but he is dubious about relationships, since having recently broken up with someone he feels was bi-polar. As a Virgo, I overanalyze our relationship and tend to get obsessed. Can I, at this time in my life, have both a loving relationship and do my lifework, or am I destined to give up hopes of the relationship in lieu of doing my mission?
Christina W., 55,
Houston, Texas
Dear Christina:
Birth sign notwithstanding, all gals overanalyze relationships! It's part of who we are. If you meet a man who is hesitant about relationships, why would you hang around? He has healing to do. Unless you intend to be a spiritual Nurse Nancy, run like hell in the opposite direction. If you date him, (even if you tell yourself that "we're just friends") you're demonstrating to the universe that you're satisfied with a limbo-like relationship with no momentum and no future. Drop him back in the dating pool and move your line elsewhere. (Have you heard the fishing term "catch and release?")
It is your destiny to enjoy a heart, mind, body, and soul relationship - while at the same time carrying out your life's purpose. That balance is imperative for you in this lifetime. However, at this time, you should be focusing on your world service. Mr. Wonderful isn't due to arrive until early next year. You could get a lot of important work done by then!
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