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March 2007 - Ask Kim Column
Dear Kim:
After 8 years my old love and I have reconnected. We had energy that only comes once. Due to being young and stupid we broke up and never saw each other again. We both have moved on with our lives...married with children. When we speak on the phone, the conversation always leads to, "How can we be together?" We both feel as though we are no longer compatible with our current spouses. Will this ever work out?
Marie E., 26,
Houston, Texas
Dear Marie:
The universe has brought you and your old love together again because the time is right to build a life together. You are indeed soul mates, and you can create the opportunity to be together--but you'll have to divorce your spouses, which will be chaotic for your children.
While concern for the children remains a priority, you two aren't going to wait until they are grown. I see the likelihood of both divorces happening this year, and then you will marry as quickly as you can. You have a love that will be sustaining for the rest of your lives. After the divorces, I also see your current spouses remarrying and moving on with their lives as well. The key to avoiding as many hurt feelings as possible is to be upfront, ethical, and honest with your current spouses, and lay your cards on the table in regard to your intentions.
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Dear Kim:
Five years ago I moved to the United Kingdom from the US. Within a year of arriving I married an Englishman and we've been trying to build a live together. Unfortunately, I have not found the transition to be an easy one, and my career has floundered. Is there a career out there for me? Also, do you see my future continuing in the U.K. or will I be moving elsewhere?
Dawn K., 27,
Ely, England
Dear Dawn:
Let me get this straight: while in your early twenties, you decided to move to a foreign country, you found a new place to live, you got a new job, and, let's not forget...you got married! And you say, "I have not found the transition to be an easy one?" I think you are brilliant! Very few people could muster the courage and strength to do what you have done! And now that you're all settled in, you're wondering, "what next?"
You are a goal-oriented gal who always needs a sense of achievement and accomplishment. Your career isn't floundering--you're bored with it! You've lost that precious feeling of momentum. Recreate it...by starting your own business. You would be fantastic in public relations, helping to promote people and their businesses. And, yes, I do see you staying in the U.K. You would be happy living close to London. You need the vibrancy, and wealth of opportunities found in a big city. You're going to build a major PR firm all on your own, without the help of Mr. Wonderful. Your angels refer to you as "Ms. Independence." Get going now...your destiny is waiting!
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Dear Kim:
I want to know if my marriage is on solid ground. I know in the past I have done things I now feel were a mistake, but I love my wife.
Frank W., 59,
Chapel Hill, NC
Dear Frank:
The reason you're feeling guilt is that you realize that what you did was beneath you, you weren't thinking of your wife's feelings, you are now realizing how much you need your wife, and you are really working on evolving. Good for you! It isn't easy to admit that we made some really poor choices that we regret. I'm hearing that your wife isn't aware of everything that went on, so instead of disclosing the whole enchilada, your guides suggest that you invest that emotional energy in demonstrating how much you love and need her now.
Think of each new day as a fresh opportunity to show her how much you respect, trust, honor, and cherish her. Write her little love notes. Don't come home empty-handed...bring her flowers. Plan little activities that you know she'd love. Talk to her. Listen to what she has to say. Make her feel like the most important priority in your life. Treat her like a women you are wooing for the first time. She still loves you, and would like to have a more satisfying relationship. Make that happen!
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