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April 2005 - Ask Kim Column

Dear Kim:
I was thinking about writing a list of all the desireable features of the significant other I would like to have in my life as you suggested at your seminar. If we have already made this arrangement with another soul before incarnating this time, what would be the point of making out such a list?
Sharla S., 57
Houston, Texas

Dear Sharla:
Guardian angels have the responsibility of facilitating the connnection between two people who are destined to meet. However, this cannot occur until both parties are ready for a heart, mind, body, and soul relationship.

When we write down the list of qualities we're looking for in a mate, it proves intent, which is important in the process of manifesting. (My Mr. Wonderful list, over time, became sixteen, single-spaced pages!) It also provides our angels with a clear indication of our level of self awareness; where we are in regard to our wisdom, enlightenment, and maturity; and whether we're actually spiritually prepared for such a relationship.

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Dear Kim:
I have been feeling very sluggish, and am getting concerned about it. I have been to the doctor and am awaiting the lab results, but I realize that blood work does not always provide an explanation. Can you tell me if there is something wrong and what I can do to feel better?
Sandy D., 49
Houston, Texas

Dear Sandy:
You're a smart cookie to realize that some conditions are not always picked up in routine medical testing. And what I am about to share is not meant to override what your physician advises you---but instead, to provide additional awareness about what's happening inside your body.

First, I channeled that you have a hormonal imbalance. You are estrogen dominant and need to get some progesterone in your system NOW by getting a prescription from your doctor. Take note: Your guides recommend that you research the difference between a progesterone that is naturally compounded, from one that is chemically based. (Unfortunately, the progesterone cream that is available over the counter will not have enough of an effect.)

Second, you have a yeast toxicity; so it's important to change your eating habits and cleanse your system from the yeast that is making you so tired, listless, bloated, and mentally foggy.

And last, but not least, your guides tell me that you don't have enough in your daily life to look forward to---so part of the sluggishness comes from doing too many of the same things revolving around duty, obligation and responsibility.

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Dear Kim:
My husband and I have been together for almost ten years; dating seven and married almost three. During our dating time, there were times that I was not completely faithful to him. I felt like we did not belong together, but I went back to him for security, leaving me feeling trapped. I am scared because I have developed feelings for another man again and they're not going away. They only get stronger. I was wondering if my husband is the one for me or does my infidelity mean I am meant to be with someone else?
Whitney P., 26
Atlanta, Georgia

Dear Whitney:
You're in a very distracting, stressful situation! Your angels tell me that you're unfaithful not because you can't commit---but because you've never truly been in love with your husband; and, all these years you've yearned for a romantic, soul mate relationship.

I have a pragmatic to-do list ready that will help you build a wonderful quality of life. But you need to accept the fact that it won't happen overnight---but rest assured that it will happen! It certainly isn't easy making big changes in your life and it takes a lot of strength and courage. The first thing to realize is the new guy is not a Mr. Wonderful either---you're just bored with your husband, so the other guy looks really good to you. And, you'd end up feeling just as "trapped" with him!

Muster the determination to forget about him, and focus on getting a new job where you make more money and have perks like good health insurance. Then, you need to move on and get a divorce. Your question really isn't whether you should get one or not---it's when.

And you must find a place to live that's affordable on your new salary. The only thing that could sabotage your new life would be to look for a man to ride in on a white steed and save you from the responsibilities that are in front of you. If you work on developing your independence, empowerment, and self-reliance, you'll meet a Mr. Wonderful, and have the life you dream about. I wish you all the best!

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