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April 2008 - Ask Kim Column
Dear Kim:
I strongly suspect that my husband is addicted to sex and porn, which affects our relationship. I also think he may be seeing someone else, or perhaps something is going on with his ex-wife. Is there any hope for this marriage, or should I leave? Also, I'm thinking about taking a course on becoming a live food instructor. Is that the right thing to do?
Nancy S., 39,
The Colony, Texas
Dear Nancy:
This year is all about happy transition and creating a life that is everything you've been dreaming about. In regard to your career: your special destiny is to become a holistic healer like Edgar Cayce. You would adore serving others in that capacity, and you'll discover that you are truly gifted as a healer. Read a few of Cayce's books on healing, which will inspire you. Then, once you're inspired, begin to practice on the people around you. That is how you will jumpstart your ability and come into an awareness of what a powerful healer you already are.
In regard to your marriage: it isn't really important what nincompoopery your husband is involved in. I'm hearing from your angels that you are no longer in love with him, nor do you trust or respect him. Those are some of the best reasons to move out of a relationship. Once you've given him the boot, you'll feel incredibly relieved. You were supposed to be a teacher for your husband and he's learned everything he's going to from you. That's why the marriage is dissolving so quickly. File for divorce, get your own place, and start your new life. All of the blessings of the universe are open to you now…you've earned them!
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Dear Kim:
For the last 5 years I have been suffering from debilitating health problems that have cost me my job, house, insurance, etc. I've seen over a dozen different doctors, a spiritual healer, and tried various diets. Is this related to something I am not aware of? Life was good before this started (fatigue, dizziness, headaches) and I want to get back to that point, but I am rapidly losing faith.
Ted B., 46,
Klamath Falls, Oregon
Dear Ted:
I don't blame you! Feeling bad is terrible, and it only gets more frustrating when you can't uncover the source of the problem. As you realize, I am a channel, not a physician. I am not licensed to provide medical advice. Having said that, what I can do is provide messages from your angels about what dis-ease has been going on inside of you.
We can begin by eliminating a good number of truly scary ailments because if you had any of those, you'd be dead by now! Your angels tell me that you clench and grind your teeth when you sleep, and that is contributing to the bad headaches because you're creating TMJ. You also have sensitive blood sugar levels, so this means that you should be getting your sugars from fresh fruits rather than juices.
But, the real source of your problems is...yeast! Many doctors do not know to look for yeast toxicity and that's why you've gone undiagnosed. Conducting this cleanse with a physician who specializes in yeast disorders would be a great idea, like Steven Hotze who practices out of Katy, Texas. Email my office (kimoneillpsychic@sbcglobal.net) and I'll give you his number. Perhaps he knows of someone in your area who has experience treating yeast. Your symptoms could disappear within weeks following the appropriate yeast cleanse.
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Dear Kim:
My question is about my daughter, Samantha. She is two. She is pulling her hair out a few strands at a time and chewing on the hair. My husband and I have tried talking to her about it, giving her extra attention, and giving her dolls with hair similar to her own to chew on. Nothing has helped. Thank you for all you do!
Patti C., 43,
Baytown, Texas
Dear Patti:
What I am hearing is that this hair pulling and chewing has nothing to do with how much time you devote to your little Honeymuffin. Nor does your daughter have a vitamin or mineral deficiency that causes some people to eat laundry detergent or dirt. (For me, it's a bar of dark chocolate or a bowl of hot popcorn.)
Samantha simply likes the way her hair feels in her mouth and she LOVES the taste of it. Because her hair is always available to her, this is obviously becoming an issue. With the blessings of your pediatrician, all you have to do it coat the hair with something that tastes awful to her. (Too bad you can't coat it with cranberries or spinach!)
Look for a non toxic hair gel or spray for children that tastes like chalk; or better yet, gritty. Stay away from fruity...you don't want to make the situation worse. She'll stop this behavior very quickly and leave her hair alone. Happily, I do not see another unacceptable behavior taking its place. However, Patti, you'll feel like a ninny going into a store and asking the clerk about hair care products, "I don't care how gentle it is, or how much shine it gives...what I care about is the taste...!"
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Dear Kim:
I really could use your help. I just quit my job that I worked at for 6 yrs. It paid very well for a retail grocery chain. I had to get out for various reasons. One being, I had enough with the drama and negativity that surrounded the store. I quit without knowing what my dream job would be. Please help! Can you please tell me what career direction I should take?
Angela G., 30,
Toronto, Canada
Dear Angela:
For you, going back into retail and working for someone else would be like dating a surly, anal ex-husband! (Unless the idea of long-term therapy and medication is somehow appealing.) Do you know why you were supposed to work at that dysfunctional store? So you could learn what not to do when you opened your own business!
You would be ecstatically happy with your own health food-type store, where you sold healthy foods, supplements, books, CD's, bath salts, etc. And, your store would be really different from anything else out there because you would also offer treatments like massage, aromatherapy, reflexology, hypnosis, channeling, and other forms of the spiritual sciences. You'll be creating something totally unique that will become very, very successful.
I know what you're thinking: where would the money come from? By starting off small with loans from friends and family members, you could open a tiny version of the grand store you will have in the future. (You'll eventually have stores all across Canada, and then, the US.)
To make this happen, you must conquer issues that include self-doubt, fear of failure, and lack of trust in your own judgment. The only way to make this happen is to take one small step at a time...right NOW! You can do it!
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Dear Kim:
What kind of job is best for me now? When will I get the new job and how? Will I have money coming to me from an outside source? When is my Mr. Wonderful coming?
Rebecca F., 49,
Little Rock, Arkansas
Dear Rebecca:
You would really enjoy working at The Crossings, located in the Austin, Texas area; or anyplace else that offered the opportunity to hobnob with folks in the spiritual sciences. You would be brilliant at planning events like book signings, or seminars/workshops, and then working to facilitate those events. Your angels recommend that you apply directly to places like these and ask for an interview. They tell me that you have lost a lot of your faith because of your recent struggles; faith in their ability to facilitate behind the scenes for you, as well as faith in your ability to manifest what you most desire.
You've gotten off the spiritual fast track, and the simplest, most expedient way to get back on board is to work with others who have mastered blooming where they are planted. After a short time working with those in the spiritual sciences (like-minded beings who could offer you positive reinforcement and ongoing encouragement) you will be ready to start moving forward again toward what is your destiny in this lifetime.
You would really enjoy writing! But, you're a little too angry, fearful, and frustrated to begin right now...so it is imperative that you pursue that job!
To answer your other question, money will not come from any outside source other than what you earn. (No lottery winnings, inheritance from Uncle Hubert, etc.) Mr. Wonderful will come along when you work through the issue of blooming where you're planted...or, learning to live in the moment, in the now. This means that you can choose to be joyful, positive and optimistic...right now, while your abundance is still questionable. That is how and when your life will begin to finally move forward. Remember that on the earthly plane, the test comes before the lesson.
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Spring, Texas 77388
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