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July 2004 - Ask Kim Column
Dear Kim:
When will I get another job, or will I just continue on as an investor?
Bill D., 51
Austin, Texas
Dear Bill:
Your guardian angels tell me that at this point in your life, working for someone else would be positively nauseating; in part, because you can no longer stomach working within someone else's structure. As a gentleman who has a number of entrepreneurial talents and abilities, you'd be much happier continuing on as an investor.
You didn't ask, but I'd like to take the liberty of making a suggestion about the type of investing that would help you accrue the greatest levels of abundance. You'd be VERY successful at buying, renovating, and selling residential real estate. This kind of career is perfect for you because you've got super negotiating skills, intuitiveness, creativity, the ability to juggle a number of balls in the air at one time, you're organized, you enjoy taking risks, you're good with follow-through, and you've got the ability to get things done in a timely fashion. Plus, you know how to play nice with the other kids.
In addition, this kind of real estate investing would allow for the time off you crave (and so deserve) to pursue interests and hobbies that excite you...like traveling!
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Dear Kim:
This is a very desperate plea for help. Perhaps you can tell me what I can say or do to help Rhonda, my sister-in-law, through her grief before it destroys her? Her six-year-old daughter, Anna, became ill and passed away on 4/11/04.
Debra G.B., 47
Sugar Land, Texas
Dear Debra:
Losing a child is the most ghastly kind of loss in this world. I'm so dreadfully sorry this has happened to your dear family. What I'm sensing is that Rhonda, like so many other parents who have lost a child, cannot stop worrying about Anna. As a mother, she naturally wants to continue caring for her child, loving her child, and protecting her child just as she did for the six years Anna was entrusted to her care.
Also, I'm sensing that Rhonda is feeling a common survivor's guilt associated with her daughter's death. She's asking herself, "Why am I still here and Anna's gone? I never expected this! She was just an innocent little girl! I would have given my life to see her healed! Now there are so many things she'll never experience...this should never have happened! My life is over..."
The most helpful and loving thing you can do is suggest that Rhonda visit a therapist NOW. If she hesitates, you may want to consider a gentle family intervention. Rhonda is overcome with grief, anger, and depression, as anyone would be, and a good therapist can help her learn to cope with these emotions. Although, frankly, her life will never be the same, your sister-in-law has two darling little boys to consider, and at the same time, she must also try to focus on how she plans to maintain the relationship with her husband.
The truth is that Anna's destiny has already been fulfilled and so she has returned to her home in heaven. Rhonda is still here because she has dynamics of her own destiny still to achieve. For her family's sake as well as her own, Rhonda must muster the strength and courage to put one foot in front of the other, fueled by the faith that one day she and her precious Anna will indeed be reunited in heaven.
In the meantime, I sense that this child is spending quite a bit of time with Rhonda and the rest of the family trying to assure everyone that her soul is still very much alive. The more intuitive members of your family will eventually become aware of her presence and will be able to tangibly feel, hear, and even see Anna. In fact, she has already been visiting some members of the family through their dreams at night. She can hear everything you say to her, and she is speaking to you in return. The more you practice communicating with Anna, the greater your ability to 'receive' her. And that ability will be a Godsend to you all.
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