Dear Kim:
I came to a book signing you did at BookPeople in Austin a few years back and you were awesome! Since then, I've read both your books several times. I practice channeling as much as I can. But there seems to be one issue I can't get any relief or resolution on. I am broken-hearted about a relationship that has been on and off for the last eight years. It's currently off. He felt like The One from the first time I laid eyes on him and for many years after. Is he really the only guy that I'm ever going to love that much?
Mona B., 41,
Dallas, Texas

Dear Mona:
I'm sorry that you're hurting so badly! It takes a lot of courage to live on the earthly plane, doesn't it? The reason you felt such fireworks when you met the guy you thought was The One is because you've been romantically involved with him in past lifetimes so there was an existing chemistry, and because you had a specific destiny with him in this lifetime...to be his teacher and student!

When you first met, your soul was telling you, "Yes, we have a destiny with this guy…so, go full steam ahead!" You were supposed to be together. He helped you learn about independence and empowerment, didn't he? And, he helped you put finishing touches on what you expect from a romantic partner to allow you to feel more entitlement now. Through this relationship, you have a better idea of what you want and don't want, and need and don't need in a partner. You were to teach him about accountability…being responsible for what he said and what he did. You were also to teach him about better honoring his promises and commitments.

Mr. Wonderful has not come into the picture yet. Have faith and muster patience! He's due to arrive in about two years. You will have the heart, mind, body, and soul relationship you've been dreaming about. You'll meet him in the Dallas area, and he's a real pussycat! When your ex contacts you and wants to get together again, tell him to go fly a kite because he'll only end up hurting you again. And, lovely Miss Mona, you've got better things to do than wasting any more time on someone you've spiritually outgrown.

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Dear Kim:
I have a burning desire to start my own business. In my dreams it is a business with my husband helping people or making them laugh. My husband is a disabled veteran. His new job is making matters worse and I was hoping we could find a business that would make sense with each of our backgrounds. Of course, I have fears not being able to support our children if we start a new chapter in our lives. What should we do?
Diane G., 34,
Houston, Texas

Dear Diane:
You would be very happy starting a candy company that also sold toys. This business would be a child's wonderland that would also appeal to grownups...sort of like a gastronomic Disneyland! You can start by experimenting making chocolate candy in your own kitchen, like Mrs. Fields did with her cookies many years ago.

You will find that you have a gift with candy making because you've done it before in past lifetimes. And, I ask you, what can make people smile more than chocolate? You will sell the candy on line and also in stores. To get the business off the ground, in the beginning you'll offer the candy in stores like Nordstrom's. When the candy starts selling well, it will allow you to make enough money to open your own first retail store. You can do this!

Plus, your hubby would enjoy this business, so the two of you could work together. You've been hearing your angels perfectly. And, one day, you'll have a successful business that you can pass down to your children. If you ever want a chocoholic's opinion on any of your products...I'll volunteer to be a guinea pig. I'm always willing to go the extra mile and sacrifice to help out a fellow human being!

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Dear Kim:
Am I going to get a new career or is my current job going to get better?
Jodi S., 38,
Green Bay, WI

Dear Jodi:
Your angels are telling me that you already know your current job isn't going to get any better. In fact, it's only going to get worse. Not to sound judgmental, but you work with a bunch of nincompoops! However, you were meant to work there for a very good reason. By working there, you've learned that you'd be very happy working at home in your own business where there was nobody telling you what to do…or when to do it.

Jodi, you are a very funny gal who would make a brilliant cartoonist. Think about which of your current colleagues you could include in a comic strip about the everyday hassles of working in your industry. Lots of people will be able to relate to what you've gone through because they face the same baloney day after day! You do not need any classes or workshops to learn how to draw; your existing ability is terrific and just needs to be jumpstarted by practicing. You could be a syndicated cartoonist in newspapers nationwide, or you could write a series of cartoons for publication in books. What a blast!

Plus, you're going to want to move away from Green Bay. Your angels are telling me that you're likely to choose Taos, New Mexico, where you're going to buy some land and live a very private life up in the mountains.

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Dear Kim:
I am currently married to the man I truly believe is my soul mate. This is my 2nd marriage. He has shocked everyone, friends, family & most of all me by telling me he is not happy anymore, thinks he no longer feels any "chemistry" between us & moved out 1 week later. We never argue or fight, in fact we laugh & share all the time. I have not experienced any anger or bitterness yet. I feel he is hiding something from me, yet I do not really feel it has to do with another woman. He has a very stressful job & I believe the pressures have driven him away. Any suggestions?
Marie K., 46,
Spring, Texas

Dear Marie:
I'm proud of you for not choosing to become angry or bitter. (Too bad, however, that Diane is not making her chocolate yet.) I do not see this unexpected bombshell related in any way to your hubby's career. He has simply outgrown the romantic aspect of your relationship. While it is true that you will remain friends, both of you will go on to remarry following a very amicable divorce.

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Hey Kim:
I've been doing something new and fun! ART! In a nutshell, it is "spirit inspired abstract." Very colorful paintings, very large, lots of texture, and just a joy to do. It puts me in a "heartspace" that I haven't been in for a while, and I love it! My question: should I be doing this for myself, or does it actually have some selling potential?
Teresa M., 46,
Glen Haven, WI

Hey Theresa:
I LOVE to hear about new and fun endeavors! You have indeed been directed by spirit to conduct this work and your style will shift along with your ever-increasing level of enlightenment. As you continue to grow and evolve, so will your art. This is the start of your life's purpose and you must continue. You are here on the earthly plane to be a healer and you will conduct this work through your art. Your canvases will hang in homes, and places like galleries, office buildings, and other public locales where great numbers of people can really enjoy them.

Keep up the good work. When your angels feel you are ready, an agent/manager will arrive on the scene to help get your work noticed which will result in a substantial income. You are creating a whole new style of art and your amazing ability will be celebrated worldwide. Readers...we can all say "I knew her when...!"

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