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September 2004 - Ask Kim Column
Dear Kim:
We had a HUGE family fight, and I am in deep, deep, distress. Do you see the situation resolved? And was I dreaming last night, or was someone or something sitting on my bed with me? If so...who? And why?
Renee G., 40
Kailua, Hawaii
Dear Renee:
This family split has been coming for a long time. No disrespect, but you have some real busy bodies in your family who feel that they have the right to tell others what to do, think, say, etc. You've set boundaries with them, and that's a very good thing! However, because you've established that you no longer need or want their permission or approval, you're at the top of their doo-doo list.
Enjoy your new status as an adult who won't allow herself to be manipulated or pushed around any longer! The visitor you asked about (on your bed) was one of your guardian angels trying to make contact with you. You have been asking for tangible evidence, haven't you?!
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Dear Kim:
My granddaughter, Katelynn is having terrible night terrors. She awakens at night in sheer terror doing things like trying to get out of the window, and the house, screaming and crying. She says things like, "Stop hurting me," and "let go of me," and "my brother's gone," and similar, horrible things for a three-year-old. Can you tell us why she has these dreams and what her parents can do for her?
Jody C., 47
Magnolia, Texas
Dear Jody:
Katelynn's night terrors are related to past life experiences. When she gets into the deep REM sleep, she psychically returns to traumatic incidents that took place in two different past lifetimes. Like most children, she has vivid memories of past lives, and this is what causes many of the "night terrors" for children starting at birth, and in some cases continuing until ten or twelve years of age.
Katelynn's soul is actually trying to help her heal from these experiences and that's why it has been releasing the memories to her during sleep. In one of the past lives, she was a little girl of seven living in France. The Vikings came to her village, raped and killed her mother, viciously assaulted her after she attempted to flee, and then kidnapped all the young boys from the village as slaves. The boys, including her beloved ten-year-old brother, were never seen again; and at the tender age of seven, she had to fend for herself to survive.
In the other lifetime, Katelynn was an orphaned young girl of seventeen living as a nun in a French convent. In 1435, her village was attacked by English soldiers, and the convent was overrun. She, along with all the other Sisters, were brutally assaulted. She became pregnant from the attack, and died in an agonizing childbirth eight months later.
So, now that we know what Katelynn is reliving, let's talk about how her parents can assist her with this healing. Very simply, she needs to be reassured, every day, that she is safe, and that nothing can hurt her or any of her loved ones. As she continues to feel this unwavering safety and security, you'll be surprised and delighted about how soon this terrible fear will pass.
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Dear Kim:
I am feeling so lost and unsure of myself right now. I am trying to start a business, but my confidence wavers. I also married a man that I knew for just a very short while and I'm beginning to wonder if I made a mistake; it doesn't feel like we are on the same plane at times. Am I on the right path?
J. J., 44
Houston, Texas
Dear J.:
You MUST pick yourself up by the bootstraps and make a go of your business. Being entrepreneurial is part of your life's purpose. Of course you're feeling lost and unsure; you're doing something brand new---that's to be expected. Just DO IT! And do it NOW! You need to be self-supporting.
And in regard to your marriage: it's true---you're not on the same plane as your husband. He's a man, isn't he? If you want to feel like you're on the "same plane" with someone, call a girlfriend! And, ladies, don't laugh! Many men feel the same way about us. Men and women are simply NOT on the same plane---and that's what can give a relationship a good balance.
However, in this case, I'm sensing that there will be a divorce because you're going to learn that your husband isn't there for you when you need him, and that he isn't honoring your feelings. As you sense that your feelings are not a priority to your partner, that's the beginning of the end. This story will have a happy resolution because when you finally end the relationship with your current husband, you're paving the way for a Mr. Wonderful to come into your life.
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Kim O'Neill
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Spring, Texas 77388
kim@kimoneillpsychic.com
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