Dear Kim:
I am a very old soul, in a very young body and mind. Often I have difficulty putting into words the feelings that flow through me. I feel like the weight of the whole world is on my shoulders-however, something tells me I am the cause for all the worry in my life. I am constantly searching for meaning and truth in everything, and many times, I feel it detracts from letting joy naturally flow. I struggle with anxiety and rage, which runs in my family, but I have discovered ways to cope with it. I feel like a baby turtle that is stuck with a huge shell that is too big for me to carry around. Please help me. I need a paradigm shift that will last! My destiny is to be a martial arts instructor and to teach people how to truly live. But it won't happen until I let go of being afraid and start believing in myself. How can I face my insecurity? How can I grow and fill out my shell?
Joe, 21,
Houston, Texas

Dear Joe:
This is your last lifetime on the earthly plane, and because you have so much planned as your destiny, you have gotten into the habit of pressuring yourself to get things done now, now...NOW! You will do it all...and you'll enjoy the journey a lot more if you learn to surrender to the perfect timing of the universe. You're trying to do everything at once. Cut yourself some slack!

I am "hearing" that the anger is really frustration over the fact that you have not yet reached the success that you sense is ahead; as if you've been, in some regard, wasting your life. That is not the case at all. Your angels are telling me that martial arts is meant to be a beloved, lifelong hobby and that you're going to compete and win awards for your prowess. You've been a martial arts master in past-lives and that's why it is so appealing to you.

In this lifetime, your destiny is to be a mentor, teacher, facilitator, and inspiration to others by writing best-selling nonfiction books that are geared toward helping others build greater enlightenment. Plus, you are going to be a great orator who will positively influence the lives of millions of others. In essence, you are here on the earthly plane to act as a guardian angel. Start writing, and you'll find your peace. I look forward reading your books!

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Dear Kim:
I was with a friend who told me she "saw" and "heard" the soul of a little boy who I am to give birth to. She even said that he is a little prankster! I was intrigued, so I asked my husband if we could try for a sibling for our son. It's a sensitive subject as I come from a severely dysfunctional family. My husband said we can't afford another child because the economy is so unstable. I'm devastated, and wonder how my friend can be so convinced.
Caroline E.,36,
Austin, Texas

Dear Caroline:
Your friend is right about another pregnancy, but I "see" twin daughters in your future. You already sense these unborn children and yearn to give them life. There's no reason to be upset! Insofar as your husband's resistance...haven't you always the one who has had the vision in the family? Don't you always sense things before he does? He'll come around; it's just that he wants to be making more money before committing to another child.

You'll be thirty-eight when you get pregnant again, and you're going to be a great health, so don't sweat it. Let the topic of pregnancy alone, and bring it up again at Christmas, 2009. When your darling hubby replies, "Well, maybe..." don't waste another moment! Even if you're hosting a family party, crook your beautiful finger and whisper, "Come to mama, big boy," and give an excuse to your guests as you lead Mr. Wonderful from the room for a few minutes. What's more important than making a baby with a willing partner? You have two more babies joining your family in one more pregnancy. I'm thrilled for you!

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Dear Kim:
I am involved with a man that I wonder if he is healthy for me. Richard is bi-polar and I realize what this entails, because my ex-husband was bi polar. Richard has such a sweet side to him that I have fallen very hard for. Although we have discussed marriage, he plans on moving away. I don't know if he is "Mr. Right" and I have a lot of questions as to whether he is someone that is healthy for me to be with. I have asked my angels for guidance, to send me someone kind and caring, and Richard appeared in my life. I've asked for a sign from the angels as to whether Richard is "The One." The angels have provided signs, but I always second-guess them. I keep asking myself if these signs are only something that I want to see, not what really is. I need some guidance before I make a major life-changing decision like moving across the country with this man. What do you see, for me? Will I be making a mistake, or will I finally find happiness?
Marilyn S., 45,
Salem, Ohio

Dear Marilyn:
You already know the answer to your questions. First of all, if Richard was a Mr. Wonderful, you would know-without any doubt! He came into your life to be a temporary student. Thanks to your ex-hubby, you have a lot to teach him about spiritual healing...if he is willing to learn.

While waiting for a Mr. Wonderful, your angels will help you make the best use of your time by bringing students into your life who can learn about the issues you have already mastered. Keep that in mind when you meet someone new while you're on the lookout for your romantic soul mate. Another reason your angels will bring someone into your life who is not a soul mate is to help quell the loneliness and provide you with a temporary playmate.

So, when you meet someone new, the first question to ask your angels should be: Is this person a Mr. Wonderful, or a student? This man is appealing because of past-life chemistry, and because there is no one else in the picture. Don't move with Richard! A short time from now, you'll be kicking yourself and planning another move...away from him! Allow the relationship to transition with grace and dignity.

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Dear Kim:
I have a daughter (Holly H) who is anorexic & has little self-esteem. She is twenty-nine, lives in DC, and is an attorney. Will she ever overcome her issues with food? Will she have a rewarding, loving marriage, and will she be successful in her career? What is in her future?
Nancy A., 64,
Toledo, OH

Dear Nancy:
As you suspect, Holly is not happy right now with her career, her personal life, or where she is living, because she has already outgrown the dynamics of her current life. She unknowingly imprisons herself by remaining there. Her angels tell me that there will be enormous transition in her life which will direct her toward a much more fulfilling existence. Holly would be happiest writing novels and screenplays, which would allow her to work when she wanted, erase the ceiling on her income, and get away from the gut-wrenching billable-hour-routine that is running her life; and, she will eventually live on a gorgeous coastline, like in California, or in Hawaii.

She will meet her romantic soul mate when she is thirty-three, and she'll have two children in her late thirties. Your daughter needs to realize that the key to her happiness is already in her hand. To be true to self, Holly must focus on her own dreams and goals...rather than someone else's.

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Dear Kim:
This month I was thrown a curve ball. My in-laws have offered us a piece of land in Tennessee. I also found out this month that my husband is not happy here in Texas. If we take this offer this will be our seventh move in ten years. My plans on opening a candy shop will have to be on the back burner. My heart tells me that this could be a good move, but my head says no. I have asked my angels to guide me into the right direction. Kim, is there a reason I cannot hear them when I am channeling? Could you advise me if Tennessee is the place for us, or should we be looking for another destination?
Diane G., 34,
Houston, Texas

Dear Diane:
There was a period in my life when I moved as much as you have, and I believe that every transition moves us closer to a happier quality of life. All of those moves have helped you make progress on two of your major issues: flexibility and learning to bloom where you are planted. The move to Tennessee would be extremely positive and was meant to be a gift to you from your angels.

Your head warns that it might not be the right thing to do because your head-or mental thought processes-will not endorse anything that does not have a guaranteed outcome. That is why your head will rarely approve of a risk that involves something new and untried. Your candy business would be a great success in Tennessee; and, what's more, you would love building a new dream house on that beautiful land offered by your in-laws. Accept their very generous offer as quickly as you can!

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