Dear Kim:
I was diagnosed with Stage 1 breast cancer mid-2010. I had a lumpectomy with radiation and have had clear checkups since then. Will I have cancer again in my life? Will I live a long life?
Shirley B., 59,
Lake Jackson, TX

Dear Shirley:
Your angels tell me that the lumpectomy was the best course of action. Going forward, it is very important for you to have regular mammograms; and, colonoscopies (where the doctor snakes the tube up your bum to check for polyps); as well as yearly check-ups with a dermatologist who can give you the once-over to check for melanomas. (It's very important for you to strip naked for this exam because skin cancers can erupt in places that have rarely been exposed to the sun.) If you follow through, you are destined to enjoy decades of being active, healthy, and mobile!

----------------------------------------------------------

Dear Kim:
I'm expecting my first little one in October. Would you be able to tell me when I'm going to be able to move in with my son's father? And my second question is, would you be able to tell me how my son is going to be delivered and if everything's going to go smoothly?
Brittany B., 16,
Tampa, FL

Dear Brittany:
If you've read my column in the past, you already know that I provide the most candid answers to the questions posed by my readers. That said...it is unlikely that the relationship with your son's father is going to last. It would be a good idea to assume that you will have full responsibility for the baby. Your angels recommend that you give birth in a hospital or clinic (rather than a home birth), and make certain that you get to the facility early. Better to be too early than deliver the baby in the back seat of a car or on the sidewalk! The labor and delivery will go beautifully and your son will be healthy. You will also become pregnant with girls when you are in your twenties. You're going to be a terrific mom!

----------------------------------------------------------

Dear Kim:
Recently I started a conversation online with a person who is out of town, but so far it looks like we have a lot in common. Could this be my soul mate? Will we meet in person soon?
Licia H., 48,
Richmond, VA

Dear Licia:
This guy isn't a Mr. Wonderful. However, you will meet a romantic soul mate online, as early as this December. Your destiny is to share a heart, mind, body, and soul relationship and the only way that won't happen is if you give up! In addition, if you develop the communication with your angels, they will be able to give you a week-by-week summary of what's happening behind the scenes (in regard to what your angels are doing to help your personal life) which will definitely ease some of the frustration! In the meantime, you MUST create what I call a Soul Mate List, where you invest several hours to write down all of the qualities you're looking for. That way, you can compare each new guy with your written list and that can make the whole agonizing, confusing dating process a whole lot simpler and easier!

----------------------------------------------------------

Dear Kim:
I am currently in a relationship of 18 months with a man I love. We are having issues due to my jealousy. He has an ex to whom he is still married and they have two little girls. (I don't like this but I chose to accept him this way.) My mother and him do not get along which hurts as we cannot join family events due to this. I have been through so many downs that I really begin to wonder if sticking around is worth my time. I deeply wish he was my soul mate and father of my future children, but am I just lying to myself?
E.Q.,
Houston, TX

Dear E.Q.:
The last eighteen months must have been pure hell for you. Being romantically involved with a married man is no picnic, especially when he has done nothing to get out of his marriage and make a commitment to you. Anyone would be jealous and insecure existing inside a limbo-like emotional black hole. The only way to save yourself is to break it off immediately, regardless of how much your married boyfriend begs or protests. Do not lose sight of the fact that he is holding all the marbles and you are left with nothing more than the crumbs from his romantic table. Break it off today and don't look back! Therapy would be a huge investment in your future; it's important to discover why you felt compelled to remain steadfast in a relationship with a man regardless of his lack of loyalty and commitment. You deserve so much more!

----------------------------------------------------------

Would you like Kim to answer a question for you in her column? Please write or email your question, including your name and age. If you'd like information about a private session, you can contact Kim at 281-651-1599, or through our Contact Form.


Kim O'Neill
4008 Louetta Rd
#362
Spring, Texas 77388
kim@kimoneillpsychic.com

Back to Main Ask Kim Page